When you turn over control to God, your relationships with other humans improve. You only need to be concerned about doing what is best for them that God gives you to do.
When you retain control, YOU need to be concerned about all aspects of your relationship with them. From what they might do that might harm you, to are you getting the best value from the relationship.. From are they doing things the right way to if they are wrong won’t that affect your reputation. It goes on and on. It’s a wonder, that you have time to live.